HOUSE SHARE Dealing with guests

Living with a flatmate can be hard enough, but adding guests to the mix can make it downright frustrating. Dealing with an extra person in your home, extra possessions strewn about and disruptions to the normal schedule can all make a guest’s presence less heavenly and more hellish. To avoid disagreements over guests, make up some house rules regarding the three most common types: overnight guests, out of town guests and emergency guests.

Overnight Guests
Overnight guests can range from a friend who stayed too late and missed the last bus home to a total stranger brought back for one night only. For some flatmates such overnight guests are a fact of life but for others they may be incredibly disruptive. House rules regarding overnight guests include that the flatmate inviting someone to stay should notify the other flatmates and that out-of-bounds areas be clearly explained to the guest. As with all things flatmates will need to remain flexible, but with general agreement about this subject there should be far fewer incidences that cause disagreement.

Out of Town Guests
Out of town guests rarely turn up without prior warning so it is easier for flatmates to prepare for these types of visitors. Setting house rules about topics such as how many guests can stay at one time, what the average length of a stay should be, if guests will receive a spare set of keys or the security code, who will feed and entertain guests and whether or not guests will be left alone is a good idea when it comes to out of town guests. Rules may need to change to fit circumstances, so patience and flexibility from all flatmates will be needed.

Emergency Guests
Of all the possible types of guests, emergency guests will be those that come to stay with little warning. It might be a friend who has had too much to drink, a depressed relative or someone who does not want to be alone. As these guests may stay only one night it will be up to flatmates to determine what type of rules will be followed for each guest. In general following a mixture of overnight and out of town guest rules will work for any type of emergency guest.
Having guests in the house can strain even the best relationship between flatmates. Setting up house rules and remembering to fight fair should go a long way towards avoiding, or ending, disagreements over guests.

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