So the ambiguous phrases, spoken by the beloved person, can be perceived in the most unfavorable way. Therefore, men who want to live in peace have to memorize 10 phrases that can’t be said to women under any circumstances.
- “But my ex…!”
Perhaps there is no woman on earth who has never heard such a statement from her boyfriend. In fact, such words can easily destroy relations. So, it is better to think about the consequences before saying such a phrase and you should know that this may lead to a horrible break up.
- “My mother would do differently!”
This phrase is a time bomb. Any pretty and calm wife can turn into an angry harpy when hears such an expression after a hard day. Female psychology doesn’t accept such stinging comparisons.
- “You are a bad cook!”
The accusation of awful culinary skills is a powerful blow for a woman. It will be difficult to recover from it and your relationship will end soon. The most curious thing is that men say this phrase even when women cook well. Of course, you will have to apologize. We understand that you didn’t want to say that, you had a bad mood, etc. but it was better to be silent. Women don’t like men whose way to the heart lies not through the stomach, but somehow differently.
- “You look bad!”
You have to never and under no circumstances make such straightforward remarks to a woman about her appearance or weight. “Your friend’s hair looks great! And also her hair and makeup are ideally matched to her outfit”. Just remember this once and for all: you can give advice and comment her appearance only when she asks you about it and you should do it very delicately.
- “Ok!”
There is nothing that infuriates a woman so much as a short answer to a long and informative message. No matter what it is – a social network or messages on the phone – this attitude is not acceptable. Sometimes it happens that a man perceives questions rhetorically or simply doesn’t consider it necessary to answer, so silence follows in response. It is generally accepted that silence is a sign of agreement. But if it concerns relations between the sexes, then it can be considered as indifference and nothing else.
- “Relax!”
Such a call immediately reduces the chances that she calms down right now. If a girl is excited about something, only a solution of the problem will allow her to relax. Therefore, instead of the phrases “relax”, “calm down” or “cool down” try to help your woman understand the causes of her unrest.
- “Is it PMS?”
Let’s suppose that it is so. But don’t talk about it and don’t focus her attention on this. The phase of their menstrual cycle has no influence on the emotional state of many girls. Therefore, her antics and whims are most likely connected with something else.
- “You are fat!”
This is the limit and this is not forgiven for men. Even a woman with the perfect body may be confused by her weight after a man calls her “fat.” Never tell a woman that phrase! Moreover, it is dangerous for her health because it can severely hurt her psyche and cause an unhealthy desire to lose weight. The appearance of a woman and especially her figure – is a sacred women’s temple. A man can only walk around and admire it. Entrance is strictly forbidden. Remember this! So take care of your woman and fill her up with sincere compliments. If you do everything right, then she will love you forever. And it is better to think whether you like to hear such phrases from your woman.
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